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870 CAUSES OF FAMILY CONFLICTS
Mamayusupova Iroda Khamidovna
Researcher at the Kokan State Pedagogical Institute.
Email: [email protected] phone: +99891 140-42-47
ANNOTATION
This article provides general information and guidance on family disputes and marital disputes, mother-in-law disputes, mother-in-law disputes, mother-in-law disputes, mother-in-law disputes, parent-child disputes, and child disputes.
Keyword: family, daughter-in-law, conflict, mother-in-law, father-in-law, compatibility, brothers and sisters.
The family is part of our society because it is a sacred place. We are familiar with the customs and abilities of Uzbek families. Uzbek families are not burdened with problems as the technological age develops. In the family, great importance is attached to the upbringing of the father, mother, children, father-in-law and mother-in-law.
INTRODUCTION
According to who is a participant in family disputes, they can be divided into the following main types: 1. Disputes between spouses; 2. Disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; 3.
Disputes between mother-in-law and son-in-law; 4. Disputes between Ovsins; 5. Conflicts between parents and children; 6. Conflicts between children. Of course, this list can be continued. In any family, the emergence of conflict situations in the relationship of the couple is inevitable. But the nature of these disputes, their consequences are different in different families and their family relationships. Conflicts in successful families unite, and conflicts in dysfunctional families divide. That is why in psychological literature conflicts are conditionally differentiated into conjunctive and disjunctive conflicts. They differ from each other in the nature of the problems underlying their occurrence, the resolution of these problems, their duration, participants, consequences, etc.
THE MAIN FINDINGS AND RESULTS
What disputes are called binding disputes? The problems that led to the emergence of unifying disputes and their solution are aimed at the interests of both the husband and wife, and the whole family. If they are solved, the problems related to the general interests of the family will be solved as a result. Examples of such conflicts are disputes in the category of family discipline, tidiness, keeping the family budget, organization, thrift, avoiding wastefulness, raising children and other similar issues. Basically, they occur between spouses, and only the spouses themselves are considered participants. With the successful resolution of such conflicts, processes are carried out that serve to ensure the stability of family life, such as a closer acquaintance and understanding of the spouses of each other, the study of the negative and positive qualities of each other, adaptation to each other, cooperation. in problem solving.
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871 In other words, such disputes belong to the category of disputes like "the war of husband and wife - drying a gauze scarf." "Gauze Handkerchief Drying" develops cooperation between husband and wife. What kind of disputes are called controversy disputes? In separation disputes, the problem that caused them and the decision are directed in favor of one of the spouses. In such disputes, the interests of one side are often decided at the expense of the interests of the other side. For example, a husband or wife personally buys something for themselves, these include the work of the husband or wife, disputes arising from the relationship of the husband or wife with relatives, which are typical disputes for Uzbek families.
The resolution of such disputes, that is, the satisfaction of the interests of one party, is carried out in most cases at the expense of the interests of the other party.
In such situations, dissatisfaction and objection remain on the side whose interests were lost, and in the future they can intensify and serve as the basis for the next conflict. In separatist disputes, after the dispute is resolved, a controversial situation remains. Also, the causes of separation conflicts depend on factors outside the couple's relationship. Their causes and participants can sometimes be a third person other than the couple, and their resolution depends not only on the couple themselves, but also on the third person. As a result, the number of disputes is increasing.
Divorce disputes are, in most cases, "unrestricted" disputes that, by their nature, participants, resolution and consequences, go beyond the marital relationship. Other family members also interfere in such marital disputes: mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, etc.
Separation disputes lead to the fact that the love between the couple weakens and disappears.
This negatively affects the relationship between parents and children. What can cause conflicts between parents and children?
The basis for such disagreements are: 1. Failure to take into account the existing difference in worldviews; 2. It is not welcome that young people sometimes “fight” with their parents for the independent organization of their free time, independence in choosing friends, independence in the field of emotions, independence in choosing a profession, independence in choosing a life partner; 3. Parents indulge in drunkenness or debauchery; 4. Sometimes children are not accustomed to work and as a result they get used to an easy life; 5. Some young people forget about their filial responsibilities, etc. 6. Disagreements arising from the insufficient level of psychological and pedagogical knowledge of parents.
CONCLUSION
Thus, as a result of the above situations related to the relationship between parents and children, the family loses a sense of well-being. What do you say that there are kids who even drink and touch their parents and whores who dishonor their parents? Some parents do not know the crises that inevitably arise in children at 3, 6, 13-14 years old. At these age stages, new psychological connections appear in the child's psyche. This is manifested in their relationships with adults, including parents. Some parents who do not notice this think that
“my child has become extremely stubborn and deaf” and complain. As a result, parents and children cannot understand each other as a result of setting their own measures against this.
There are times when a child is tired of their parents.
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