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THE THIRD WORLD FEMINISM REVEALED IN THE ACTIONS OF JASVINDER AGAINST WOMEN’S FORCED MARRIAGES AS SEEN

IN JASVINDER SANGHERA’S DAUGHTERS OF SHAME

A SARJANA PENDIDIKAN THESIS

Presented as Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements to Obtain the Sarjana Pendidikan Degree

in English Language Education

By

Levyn Gracia Hanardi

Student Number: 081214022

ENGLISH LANGUAGE EDUCATION STUDY PROGRAM DEPARTMENT OF LANGUAGE AND ARTS EDUCATION FACULTY OF TEACHERS TRAINING AND EDUCATION

SANATA DHARMA UNIVERSITY YOGYAKARTA

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THE THIRD WORLD FEMINISM REVEALED IN THE ACTIONS OF JASVINDER AGAINST WOMEN’S FORCED MARRIAGES AS SEEN

IN JASVINDER SANGHERA’S DAUGHTERS OF SHAME

A SARJANA PENDIDIKAN THESIS

Presented as Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements to Obtain the Sarjana Pendidikan Degree

in English Language Education

By

Levyn Gracia Hanardi

Student Number: 081214022

ENGLISH LANGUAGE EDUCATION STUDY PROGRAM DEPARTMENT OF LANGUAGE AND ARTS EDUCATION FACULTY OF TEACHERS TRAINING AND EDUCATION

SANATA DHARMA UNIVERSITY YOGYAKARTA

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vi ABSTRACT

Hanardi, Levyn Gracia. 2012. The Third World Feminism Revealed in The Actions of Jasvinder Against Women’s Forced Marriages as Seen in Jasvinder

Sanghera’s Daughters of Shame. Yogyakarta: English Language Education Study Program, Department of Language and Arts Education, Faculty of Teachers Training and Education, Sanata Dharma University.

This thesis analyzes the Third World Feminism revealed in the actions of

Jasvinder against women‟s forced marriages as seen in Jasvinder Sanghera‟s Daughters of Shame. The novel Daughters of Shame is based on true events of the

main character‟s own experience. It consists of thirty two chapters. The novel tells

about Jasvinder Sanghera‟s actions to help South Asian women against forced

marriages.

The problems that I discussed in this study are: The kinds of actions Jasvinder take to fight forced marriages and Jasvinder‟s efforts to fight forced marriages as a reflection of the Third World Feminism. Based on the problem, the aims of the study are to identify the actions that Jasvinder Sanghera takes to fight forced marriages and to reveal how the Third World Feminism is reflected in the actions of Jasvinder Sanghera‟s Daughters of Shame.

I used the feminism approach and the ideas of Third World Feminism in order to answer the problem. In this study, I conducted library research. Jasvinder

Sanghera‟s Daughters of Shame is the primary source of this study. There are some secondary sources which are used in order to support the topic discussed, among others are the books related to the theories, articles and online journals. I also included the review of women in Pakistan and India.

From the analysis, it can be concluded that Jasvinder‟s actions in fighting

against forced marriage clearly show the ideas of Third World Feminism. First, she opposes gender inequality faced by women in the Third World countries. She fights against patriarchal power and domestic abuse. Second, she builds a sisterhood between First World and Third World countries. Third, she becomes a women activist by building a charity named Karma Nirvana, choosing to work rather than taking a Ph.D degree, comforting the victims of forced marriage, doing preventive actions against forced marriage in schools, campaigning against forced marriage in public, being a speaker at Women‟s International Conference,

changing her „daughters‟‟ life and hope, and inviting others to continue her actions in fighting forced marriages.

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ABSTRAK

Hanardi, Levyn Gracia. 2012. The Third World Feminism Revealed in The

Actions of Jasvinder Against Women’s Forced Marriages as Seen in Jasvinder

Sanghera’s Daughters of Shame. Yogyakarta: Program Studi Pendidikan Bahasa Inggris, Jurusan Pendidikan Bahasa dan Seni, Fakultas Pendidikan dan Ilmu Keguruan, Universitas Sanata Dharma.

Skrispi ini menganalisis Feminisme Dunia Ketiga yang terungkap dalam tindakan Jasvinder Sanghera menentang kawin paksa yang terlihat dalam novel

Daughters of Shame. Novel Daughters of Shame ini berdasarkan kisah nyata pengalaman pribadi penulisnya. Novel ini terdiri dari tiga puluh dua bab. Novel ini mengisahkan tindakan Jasvinder Sanghera dalam membantu para wanita Asian Selatan untuk menentang kawin paksa.

Permasalahan yang saya diskusikan di dalam studi ini adalah: Berbagai macam tindakan yang Jasvinder lakukan untuk menentang kawin paksa dan bagaimana perjuangan Jasvinder tersebut terefleksi dalam Feminisme Dunia Ketiga. Berdasarkan permasalahan tersebut, tujuan dari studi ini adalah untuk mengidentifikasi tindakan Jasvinder dalam menentang kawin paksa dan menyatakan bagaimana Feminisme Dunia Ketiga terefleksikan dalam aksi Jasvinder Sanghera.

Saya menggunakan pendekatan feminisme dan gagasan Feminisme Dunia Ketiga untuk menjawab permasalahan tersebut. Dalam studi ini, saya menggunakan metode studi pustaka. Novel Daughters of Shame menjadi sumber utama dalam studi ini. Ada beberapa sumber tambahan yang digunakan untuk mendukung topik yang dibahas, antara lain adalah buku-buku yang berkaitan dengan teori-teori, beberapa artikel dan jurnal on line. Saya juga mencantumkan ulasan tentang keadaan wanita di Pakistan dan India.

Hasil dari analisis tersebut dapat disimpulkan bahwa tindakan Jasvinder dalam menentang kawin paksa menunjukan gagasan dari Feminisme Dunia Ketiga dengan jelas. Pertama, dia menentang ketidaksetaraan gender yang dihadapi para wanita di negara Dunia Ketiga. Jasvinder melawan kekuasaan patriarkhal dan Kekerasan Dalan Rumah Tangga. Kedua, Jasvinder membangun hubungan antara negara-negara Dunia Pertama dan Dunia Ketiga. Ketiga, Jasvinder menjadi aktivis wanita dengan: membangun sebuah yayasan bernama Karma Nirvana, memilih bekerja daripada mengambil gelar Ph.D, menghibur para korban kawin paksa, melakukan tindakan preventif dalam menentang kawin paksa di beberapa sekolah, mengkampanyekan perlawanan terhadap kawin paksa, menjadi pembicara dalam Konferensi Internasional Wanita, mengubah kehidupan

dan pengharapan “anak-anak perempuannya”, dan mengajak para penerusnya untuk melanjutkan aksinya dalam menentang kawin paksa.

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DEDICATION PAGE

I dedicate this thesis to:

Jesus Christ

,

My Best Friend

Theofilus Hanardi Wiyanto

,

My Superhero Daddy

Herlina Ros Sumiati

,

My Great Mommy

Kristiyan Adi Nugroho

,

My Beloved Man

Everyone who stays in my heart

For His mercy and loving-kindness are great

toward us, and the truth and faithfulness of the

Lord endure forever. Praise the Lord! Hallelujah!”

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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

First and foremost, I would like to express my deepest gratitude to Jesus Christ, my Savior, my Lord and my Best Friend. He always gives me strengths, blessing and guidance during the process of writing my thesis. I realize that He is

always on my side. Without Him, I will not be able to finish my thesis

successfully.

I am also indebted to my advisor, Ibu Henny Herawati, S.Pd., M.Hum., for all guidance, advice, encouragement, patience, valuable times from the

beginning until the accomplishment of this thesis. My gratitude also goes to all

my PBI lectures for transfering their knowledge, giving wonderful lessons and

teaching me a lot of things.

I would also like thank Sr. Margaret O Donohue FCJ, Bp. Hendra Kurniawan, S.S, and Bp. Peter Bambang Siswanto, S.Pd, who have given their time to read and correct my thesis. I thank them for the helpful comments in the

process of writing my thesis.

I would like to thank all the people I love. My deepest gratitude goes to

my father, Theofilus Hanardi Wiyanto, S.Pd and my mother, Eoudia Herlina Ros Sumiati, AMK., who always pray for my success. I thank them for their support, prayers, trust and unlimited love. No words can ever be good enough to

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I also thank my boyfriend, Kristiyan Adi Nugroho, who never stops loving me. He always encourages me when I give up. I thank him for his care

when I am really down. He is so meaningful for me.

I must thank Irine Puji Telisadewi, Monika Asri Lestari, and Kresentia Yosta Dhinda Aprillia for being my great friends forever. They are really my unforgettable best friends. I love them.

Special thanks go to my friends, Nieza, Mila, Adi, Dimas, Yuanita, Ayu Ganjar for being my friends during the first until the last semester in Sanata Dharma University.

Last but not least, I thank those who have supported and encouraged me to

finish my thesis. God always be with us.

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Page

TITLE PAGE... i

APPROVAL PAGES... ii

STATEMENT OF WORK’S ORIGINALITY... iv

PERNYATAAN PERSETUJUAN PUBLIKASI... v

ABSTRACT... vi

ABSTRAK... vii

DEDICATION PAGE... viii

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS... ix

TABLE OF CONTENTS... xi

LIST OF APPENDICES... xiv

CHAPTER I. INTRODUCTION A.Background of the Study... 1

B.Problem Formulation... 4

C.Objectives of the Study... 4

D.Benefits of the Study... 4

E. Definition of Terms... 5

CHAPTER II. REVIEW OF RELATED LITERATURE A. Review of Related Theories... 8

1. Feminism Approach... 8

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a. Feminism in General... 10

b. Third World Feminism... 13

B. Review on Women’s Life in Pakistan and India in 2000s ... 17

1. Women in Pakistan... 17

2. Women in India... 19

C. Theoretical Framework ... 22

CHAPTER III. METHODOLOGY A.Object of the Study... 24

B.Approach of the Study... 25

C.Method of the Study... 26

CHAPTER IV. ANALYSIS A.The Actions done by Jasvinder to Fight Forced Marriage... 28

1. Building a Charity named Karma Nirvana... 28

2. Choosing to Work rather thanTaking a PhD Degree ... 30

3. Comforting the Victims of Forced Marriage... 32

4. Doing Preventive Actions against Forced Marriage in Schools... 33

5. Campaigning against Forced Marriage in Public ... 35

6. Being a Speaker in Women International Conference... 36

7. Changing Her ‘Daughters’s’ Life and Hope... 37

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Forced Marriage... 39

B. Jasvinder’s Actions in Fighting Forced Marriage

as a Reflection of Third World Feminism... 40

1. Opposing Gender Inequality faced by

Women in the Third World Countries... 40

a. Fighting against Patriarchal Power... 41

b. Fighting against Domestic Abuse... 44

2. Building A Sisterhood between First World and

Third World Groups ... 45

3. Being a Women Activist... 49

CHAPTER V. CONCLUSIONS, IMPLICATIONS AND SUGGESTIONS

A.Conclusions... 50

B.Implications for Education... 55

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LIST OF APPENDICES

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APPENDIX 1 Summary... 66

APPENDIX 2 Biography of Jasvinder Sanghera... 68

APPENDIX 3 Pictures... 70

APPENDIX 4 Testimonial From One Of

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1 CHAPTER I INTRODUCTION

This chapter consists of five parts. They are background of the study,

problem formulation, objectives of the study, benefits of the study, and definition

of terms. In the first part, I state the reason why the novel Daughters of Shame is

chosen. Then, two research problems are formulated. Third, the goals of this study

are stated as objectives of the study. Fourth, the benefit of this study that

contributes the conducted study for the development of knowledge is stated. The

last is the definition of terms that explains some important terms used in this

study.

A. Background of the Study

There are a lot of examples in literary works, such as novels, poems,

essays and plays. In this study, I decide to work on a novel because it is

interesting and it can describe about certain situations, period, setting and events

that occur in the novel. The novel is a reflection of the writer‟s life. Through the

series of events experienced by the characters, the reader will be involved in the

situation that the characters feel. The reader will feel, think about the problem,

understand the points of view and begin to solve the conflicts that occur in the

novel. At the end, the reader can obtain the message or values that are revealed in

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Feminism is an interesting issue to be discussed because it concerns the

movement to achieve the equal position between men and women, the freedom of

women and women‟s rights in the world. It states about women‟s struggle to be

independent in regulating herself.

The movement to reach women‟s freedom is not an easy thing to do but it

needs hard struggles and commitments. Humm (1992) stated that the feminist

movement came from France in the 1960s and 1970s. It began when women felt

constrained. At that time, when people heard about the word „woman‟ they would

think about a person who worked in a kitchen, took care of her children and

husband. Besides, a woman would not have any good position in the workplace,

education and politics. Those conditions confirm that fact that women were not

treated fairly in the society. It arouses a strong tendency from many people that

women are weak creature.

Based on Jasvinder Sanghera‟s Daughters of Shame, I can see that there

are some cases that indicate the inequality between men and women. The story

happened in the last decade. All parts of the novel tell about the story of women

who have bitter experiences in forced marriage. Most of the victims of

discrimination, inequality, and sexual harrasment are always women. According

to German (2003), in 2000, there were many feminists who worked for women‟s

freedom. Some of their struggles could be successfully achieved but the rest was

the responsibility of the next generation.

The setting of Jasvinder Sanghera‟s Daughter of Shame took place in

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countries such as India and Pakistan. Robinson (1988) stated The South Asian

region such as India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, Nepal, Bhutan and

Maldives were counted in the Third World countries. Humm (1994) stated

The term “Third World” is frequently applied both to geographical entities

and to oppressed „underdeveloped‟ peoples. At the 1987 annual NWSA (National Women‟s Studies Association), to be Third World means the

country have been de-centered from any point of power in order to be used as the negative pole against which the dominant power can then define themselves. Third World feminism focuses on three major issues: on the politics of universalism; on cultural controls and misinterpretations; and on the homogeneity of the canon (p.256).

Sanghera has produced a good work about feminism. She does not only

write about the fiction story but also a real story based on her own experience.

The real story tells about her struggle to help other women. Jasvinder has posed

an unrevealed problem that really happens in her life and some women around

her. The atmosphere of feminism is very strong because I really can imagine the

struggle of Sanghera. Although women are posed to be weak creatures in one

side, I can also feel that women are strong human beings. Women can survive in

bad things which happen in their life. By looking at Sanghera‟s Daughters of

Shame, I highlight the feminism which attempts to prove that male and female

have to be equal in marriage and household. This novel inspires me to dig a

deeper understanding about the Third World feminism.

Based on the facts above, the exploration of the deepest meaning of

feminism especially the Third World feminism can be found in Jasvinder

Sanghera‟s Daughters of Shame. I investigate the kinds of actions that the

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B.Problem Formulation

Looking at the background of the study, I can clearly see that this study

poses two problems that can reveal the Third World Feminism movement. The

two research problems are formulated as below

1. What kinds of actions does Jasvinder take to fight forced marriages?

2. How does Jasvinder‟s efforts to fight forced marriages reflect the Third World

Feminism?

C.Objectives of the Study

This study has two objectives. The first objective focuses on identifying

the actions that Jasvinder Sanghera does to fight forced marriages. The second is

to reveal how the Third World Feminism is reflected in the movements of

Jasvinder Sanghera‟s Daughters of Shame.

D.Benefits of the Study

The content of this novel is full of moral values and knowledge for all

readers. Therefore, this study is able to give beneficial contribution for the readers

and especially for the students of English Education Study Program. For the

readers, it is expected that it can give some characteristics of the Third World

Feminism as reflected in Jasvinder Sanghera‟s actions to fight forced marriages in

South Asian. The reader will appreciate that the actions in reaching women‟s

freedom needs hard work and tears because it is not an easy thing to do. For the

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novel like Daughter of Shame in the other points of views. Besides, this novel can

be applied in teaching English.

E.Definition of Terms

This part provides definitions of meaning of the terms which are

frequently used in the entire parts of this study. The terms are feminism, the Third

World and forced marriage. The explanations are:

1. Feminism

In this study, I present feminism as a way to gain equal rights as a woman

to obtain her freedom in thinking, acting and living. According to Humm (1992:1)

the word “feminism” can stand for a belief in sexual equality combined with a

commitment to eradicate sexist domination and to transform society. Feminism is

women‟s assertion of their equality with men and their demand for access of those

roles and positions of public life traditionally regarded as the province of men

(Davies, 1996). Feminism can be described as a belief and a commitment to equal

rights and opportunities (Terrey, 1989).

Humm in The Dictionary of Feminist Theory states that feminism

incorporates both doctrines of equal rights of women ( the organized movement to

attain women‟s right) and an ideology of socail transformation which aim to

create a world for women beyond simple social equality (Humm 74). It means that

there is social transformation fow women to gain social equality. She also states

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sexuality, are used to sum up the basis experiences of women. (as cited in

Setyorini, 2009 p.5)

2. The Third World

In this study, Kurian (1982) states the Third World is defined as the

politically non aligned and economically developing and less industrialized

nations of the world.

The emergence of the Third World has been one of the most significant phenomena of the post-World War II world. Forty of these countries are the poorest in the world and nearly 1.2 billion of its inhabitants- 60% of

the Third World‟s population – subsist in chronic poverty. The economic and social indicator show in stark and frightful numbers the condition of

this quarter of the planet‟s population. Many Third World countries have become closed societies from which little reliable information is permitted to filter out to the West. (p.237)

Kurian (1982) states many Third World countries are located in Africa,

Latin America, and South Asia. They are often nations that were colonized by

another nation in the past. The populations of third world countries are generally

very poor but with high birth rates. In general they are not as industrialized or

technologically advanced as the first world. The majority of the countries in the

world fit this classification (p.239)

3. Third World Feminism

In this study, Third World Feminism takes place in South Asian countries,

India and Pakistan. According to Bruno (2006), the ideas of Third World

Feminism are expressed in the World Conferences in the 1990s. The ideas are: a)

Sex inequality constitute the main problem faced by women in the Third World,

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analytical categories such as race, class or position in national structures are less

important than gender, d) A sisterhood between First World and Third World

groups is an effective tool to advance sex equality e) Women activism and

feminist mobilization is an effective tool to promote changes in the sphere of

women‟s rights. The principal struggle of Third World women should be centered

around the satisfaction of basic needs, understood as basic rights (as cited in

Bruno, 2006, p.7).

4. Forced Marriage

According to Jain (2008) Forced marriage is a marriage in which the bride,

groom or both do not want to get married but are forced to by others, usually their

families. People forced into marriage may be tricked into going abroad, physically

threatened and/or emotionally blackmailed to do so. In this study, forced marriage

Unlike forced marriages, in an arranged marriage both the bride and groom

choose whether or not they want to marry the person suggested to them by their

families. In a forced marriage there is no freedom of choice.

Jain (2008) states a forced marriage is considered to be domestic violence.

Victims of forced marriages often experience physical violence, rape, abduction,

torture, false imprisonment and enslavement, sexual abuse, mental and emotional

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CHAPTER II

REVIEW OF RELATED LITERATURE

This chapter explains some theories related to the study. Review of related

literature covers three parts. The first part is the review of related theories. The

second part is the review of women in Pakistan and India in 2000s. The last part

explains the theoretical framework.

In this chapter, I explain theories related to the topic of the Third World

feminism as seen in the actions of Jasvinder Sanghera in the novel Daughters of

Shame. The theories are the theory of feminism which consists of feminism in

general, the Third World feminism ideas and review of women in Pakistan and

India.

A.Review of Related Theories 1. Feminism Approach

Rohberger and Woods say that literature is one of the works of art that has

aesthetic values. Literature is written by human as expression of particular

personalities and from all sorts of motives. Literature are works that are merely

potential until they are read and understood by the readers. In their book entitled

An Introduction to Poetry, Kennedy and Gioia state that literary criticism is more

than a discussion about literature. It is not an abstract or an intellectual problem; it

is a natural human response to literature. Literary criticism just tries to help

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In this study, I use feminist criticism to support the critical approaches.

Humm (1992) states feminist criticism gives more adequate attention to women

writers, a space to the women critic, and space to the idea of women theorists.

According to Humm, feminist criticism shares three basic assumptions. The first

means that gender influences the writing style and the ideology of each gender

can be seen from a literary work. The style shows the ideology of each gender.

For this reason, feminist criticism needs to include general interpretations of the

cultural theory or ideology of each individual writer (p. 6-7). The second major

assumption is that there are sex-related writing strategies. Men and women use

language in different ways on writing their literary work. They use different

vocabularies and different kinds of sentences (p. 7-8). The last assumption is that

even if some male critics acknowledge the first two criticism above, the

continuing traditions of which it is a part, uses male norms to exclude or

undervalue female writing and scholarship (p.8).

Feminist theory critics or feminist approaches attempt to explain how men

and women imbalance, due to gender, are reflected in literature text. In its

diversity, feminism is concerned with the position of women in a secondary

position, where women do not gain equal position with men. According to

Goodman in Literature and Gender, feminist literary criticism is an academic

approach to the study of literature which applies feminist thought to the analysis

of literary texts and the contexts of their production and reception. It has

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language, set of theories and a vocabulary all its own (as cited in Setyorini, 2009

p.9)

2. Feminism

a. Feminism in general

Montagu (1958) says that in the society there is a conditioned norm, which

states what women can do and cannot do. In almost every society there is a belief

that men are superior and women are inferior, women also think that belief is

right, because it believes as what really happens (p.23). They are not given the

chances to develop their intelligence and skills and they have different

opportunities from men (p.38). The statement means that women are conditioned

as weak creatures. Women‟s position is always under men‟s position in every

aspect of life.

According to Montagu people believe that women do not have abilities to

do the work better than men. Therefore, feminism believes that women and men‟s

position in society is the result of social factors, not natural or biological factors.

Feminism tries to see women to be equal to men. Feminism theory reveals the

importance of women‟s individual and shares experiences and women struggles.

Women struggle for equal opportunities and for equal rights. Women try to fight

against unfair condition and strive for their rights (p.40).

Harley states men from one generation to the next generation exploit

women. Gender discrimination is a great burden for women, because they have to

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conditioned from time to time. Women are not only physically oppressed but also

mentally oppressed (as cited in Setyorini,2009 p.15)

Fakih (1996) explains about the feminist struggle. The most important thing

about feminist struggle is finding out the equality, dignity and freedom. The ideas

of feminism are:

1) Equality

The definition of feminism deals with both equal rights for women and in

a way to create a world for women beyond social equality. All human beings are

born free, have equal dignity and rights. Men and women should have equal

rights. In the equality, there is no difference between human beings. Leclerq

(1942) in his book says

Like the man, the woman is a human person, with all the dignity of a human being. But she is a human person in another manner than man. She has, therefore, the same right to seek after her perfection. Yet she is different, and as a consequence her personality unfolds itself under other conditions. The rule of equality between man and woman is a rule of differentiated equality. The woman not only has an equal right with the man to the full development of her being; she has an equal right to develop

herself in different way. To impose man‟s manner of life upon the woman,

or to give her the same status, is to violate her right, which is to be different from him (p.292).

2) Liberty

Women have the right to live, work and feel free. Women have their own

freedom and rights to do anything they want. The main point is that women are

born free and equal to men. They are supposed to be subjected to men. Therefore,

women no longer put up with being dependent on men. Leclerq states that

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than in the man. She reasons less and feels more. This is not to say that she is less inteligent: she is intelligent in a different way. In the woman

intelligence is more closely linked with feeling. It is from this that she derives her gifts of intuition, an esential trait of feminine intelligence, and this likewise accounts for her slight taste for reasoning and abstract thought (p.295).

3) Women’s Right to be Herself

Feminism believes that women‟s first right is to be women that they do not

imitate the men when they develop their ability. Leclerq states that woman must

accept her nature: her development, her happiness, her perfection, her glory lies in

her woman‟s nature.

4) Opportunity of Career

Feminism means freedom for all aspects of women‟s active expression. It

is the elimination of all structural and psychological handicaps to women‟s

independence. Feminism demands for the women equality in education and in

accessing the profession. Women should have an equal role with men in achieving

her satisfaction through her own abilities.

The theories of feminism support the feminist ideas and also the theories of

superior feeling. Actually women are not inferior as men and others say. Women

have many superior characters. The feeling of superiority can make women

realize their power. It is true that women are not emotional than men but they can

handle their feelings. Women have good abilities in expressing their feelings. This

fact makes them more realist than men. They are better in handling the bad

conditions they face in their life, like starvation, exposure, fatigue, shock, and

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Women do not only have the superior feeling but they also know what is

good and bad in the way they use their feeling of superiority. Montagu says that

women know their power and use them for good deeds (1953:143). From her

statement we can conclude that women are more realistic. They can control their

feelings effectively and use their power for good purposes.

b. Third World Feminism

According to Humm (1992) Third World feminism is the third wave and

fifth gear feminism which areas are in India, Latin America, and Australia.

The term„Third World is frequently applied both to geographical entities

and to oppressed „underdeveloped‟ people. Women in The Third World are

not necessarily more „underdeveloped‟ or oppressed than Western women, White or Black. The distinction between „First‟ and „Third‟ Worlds carries with it other problems: the issue of spatial barriers and the dangers of a binary- the West/ Others. Third World feminist critics attack the traditionalism/ modernism dichotomy characterising the rigid capitalist Third World/First World binary. The example is the growing number of women in higher education, the establishment of writing workshops enabling women to research a female tradition to emphasize both the quantity and variety of women‟s writing (p.256).

Sen and Grown (1987) states the principal struggle of Third World women

should be centered around the satisfaction of basic needs, understood as basic

rights. They believe women should attain freedom not only from gender related

inequalities, but also from those related to race, class and national asymmetries,

since these categories are mutually intertwined in the concrete and real lives of

women. For a vast majority of women in the Third World, injustice as a result of

class, race and nationality divisions is closely related to the oppresive situations

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Saunders (2002, p.6) says that an important difference between western and

Third World feminism is found in their conceptualization of women as the subject

of struggles.

While western feminists make equality between men and women the center of their struggles, Third World feminism stresses satisfaction of basic material needs as a pressing issue in the context of disadvantageous international economic order. It means that the situation of women is perceived not only as the result of unequal gender relations, but as the consequence of a wide range of oppresive situations that transcend gender categories and are also related to race, class and citizenship cleavages (p.7).

According to Bruno (2006), encounters between Western and non Western

feminist creating the ongoing debate, the both sides between Western feminist and

Third World feminist expressed the ideas of Third World Feminism. The ideas are

expressed in the World Conferences in the 1990s. The ideas are:

1) Sex Inequality Constitute The Main Problem faced by Women in The Third World

Niaz (2003) states women are generally treated as second class citizens

and wives are battered for misconduct or minor mistakes. In India and Pakistan,

nearly 25% of women had suffered from physical abuse. In January 2001, about

130 cases of physical abuse occured a result of which 68 women were brutally

killed (p.177).

Papp (2010) states children learn from an early age that boys are more

valued than girls. Boys are given more freedom both inside and outside the house,

and they are encouraged to participate in decision-making, while girls are

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restricted. Boys have inherent value. The only way for girls to attain value is

through their relationship to men, mainly as wives and mothers of sons.

Therefore, it is important for girls to be educated but not too ambitious. Girls‟

primary function is to marry well; bound by duty, they are to be self-sacrificing

wives, providing services and producing sons for their husband (p.13).

2) Patriarchal Power takes Priority in The Analysis of Women Status

Napikoski (2012) defined patriarchal as a general structure in which men

have power over women. Society is the entirety of relations of a community.

A patriarchal society consists of a male-dominated power structure throughout

organized society and in individual relationships. Pilcher (2004) stated patriarchy

means rule by the male head of a social unit (a family or tribe).

Papp (2010) states the transfer of a woman, like a property, from her

father‟s control to her husband‟s, combined with the belief that her destiny is duty

to her husband, normalizes the occurence of rape and other forms of violence in a

marriage and makes it more difficult for women to reveal abuse. He says the

South Asian patriarchal structure controls female sexuality not only in a physical

manner but also in a psychological one, by making explicit the link between

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3) Other Analytical Categories such as Race, Class or Position in National Structures are Less Important than Gender

The third ideas of Third World Feminism is gender. In Third World

countries, gender is the most important than others. Race, class or position are less

important than gender. American Psychological Association (2011) described the

term gender as the attitudes, feelings and behaviors that a given culture associates

with a person‟s biological sex. Therefore, gender inequality was the condition in

which the position and rights of women were not equal to men.

In Third World countries such as India and Pakistan, there are many kinds

of action in order to respect gender. One example was honour killing or

honour-based violence. According to Papp (2010) honour killing was an ancient practice

in which men murder female relatives in the name of family “honour” for forced

or suspected sexual activity outside the marriage, even when the women have

been victims of rape.Niaz (2003) states that gender is the most important in South

Asian.

Cultural norms around violence, gender and sexual relationship are not only manifested at the individual level, but are also re-enforced or not by the family, the community and within the broader social context, including

the media. Husband‟s domination over wives, including the use of

violence, has been sanctioned by cultural beliefs (p.177).

4) A Sisterhood between First World and Third World Groups is an Effective Tool to Advance Sex Equality

To advance sex equality, a good relationship between First World and

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The term "First World" refers to so called developed, capitalist, industrial countries, roughly, a bloc of countries aligned with the United States after World War II, with more or less common political and economic interests: North America, Western Europe, Japan and Australia. First World

Countries are the most advanced economy, highest standard of living, the most advanced technology, the greates influence in the world.

The term could also mean: industrialized nations, developed countries, rich countries or the civilized world, in contrast to the poor, under developed, un-civilized, exploited nations of the so called Third World (p.2).

Sen and Gita (1987) states that it must be remembered, however, that poor

Third World women, peace and the struggle against violence can not be struggle

for basic needs, economic justice, national liberation and a development oriented

toward these goal without First World (p.74).

5) Women Activism and Feminist Mobilization is an Effective Tool to Promote Changes in The Sphere of Women’s Rights

Brown (1992) says women‟s struggles are routinely made aware of the

limitation of the protection offered by legislation and court orders. This they do

through many different strategies, for example by making themselves heard in

public arena, both directly in their own voices and also in other‟s words (as cited

in Afshar (2005), p.37).

B.Review

1. Review of Women in Pakistan

According to Niaz (2003) In Pakistan,

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comply with tribal beliefs and traditions. Any woman who deviates from these traditions, such as being seen with a man to whom she is not related or married can suffer penalties including death (p.8)

In Pakistan, there is a tradition called honour killing which closely related

to forced marriage case. Niaz (2003) Honour killings (Karo Kari) are carried out

by men who assume that their wives, daughters, sisters have, in some way,

violated norms relating to the behaviour of women, which damages a man‟s

honour. Papp (2010) stated honour killing is an ancient cultural practice in which

men murder female relatives in the name of family “honour” for forced or

suspected sexual activity outside the marriage, even when the women have been

victims of rape. Since 2002, 12 murders of women were identified as honour

killings; three other murders that were identified as domestic violence also have

the hallmarks of an honour killing. Each year, male family members murder

thousands of girls and women across the globe in the name of family honour and

shame. At least 266 women had been victims of honour killing in and around

Lahore (p.179).

According to UNICEF (1999), in year 2000, about 206 women died of

stove-burning. According to Progressive Women Association, in all the cases

more than 30 percent of the body was burnt and in some cases it exceeded up to

60-90 percent. Its report “Dimensions of Violence”, noted that 163 stove-death

had taken place in an 11-month period in Lahore alone in year 1999 (as cited in

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2. Review of women in India

According to INCLEN Survey (2000), the women issues in India include

rape, sexual harassment, importation of girls/trafficking, dowry related murders,

domestic violence, suicide, child sexual abuse.

An increase of 6.7% in the incidents of rape was seen between 1997 until

2002. Based on the survey, 16,373 women were raped during the year. 45 women

were raped every day and 1 woman was raped every 32 minutes.

The second fact is sexual harrasment. 44,098 incidents of sexual

harassment were reported. Every day 121 women were sexually harassed and 1

woman was sexually harassed every 12 minutes. An increase of 20.6% was seen

in incidents of sexual harassment between 1997 until 2002.

The third fact is girls/ women trafficking or importation of girls and

women. 11,332 women and girls were trafficked. 31 women and girls were

trafficked every day. 1 woman or girl was trafficked every 46 minutes. 14,630

women and minor girls were kidnapped or abducted. 40 women and minor girls

were kidnapped every day. 1 woman or minor girl was abducted every 36

minutes.

The fourth fact is dowry related murders. 7,895 women were murdered

due to dowry. 21 women were murdered every day. 1 woman was murdered due

to dowry every 66 minutes.

The fifth fact is domestic violence. 49,237 women experienced domestic

violence in their household. 135 women were tortured by their husbands and

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minutes. Domestic violence constitutes 33.3% of the total crimes against women.

A steep rise of 34.5% in domestic violence cases was witnessed between 1997

until 2002. Over 40% of married Indian women faced physical abuse by their

husband. 1 in every 2 women faces domestic violence in any of its forms:

physical, sexual, psychological and/or economic.

Between 1997 and 2001, 10,424 housewives committed suicide and

accounted for 52% of the total female suicide victims. There are 12,134 women

were driven to commit suicide due to dowry.

The last fact is child sexual abuse. 63% had experienced sexual abuse at

the hands of family members. 25% had been raped, forced to masturbate the

perpetrator or forced to perform oral sex. Nearly 33% said the perpetrator had

been a father, grandfather or male friend of the family.

The government records show high incidence of crimes against women in

India. The National Crime Records Bureau reported in 1998 that the growth rate

of crimes against women would be higher than the population growth rate by

2010. Earlier, many cases were not registered with the police due to the social

stigma attached to rape and molestation cases. Official statistics show that there

has been a dramatic increase in the number of reported crimes against women

(Country Reports on Human Rights Practices, 2002, p. 5).

The feminist activists in India picked up momentum during later 1970s.

One of the first national level issues that brought the women's groups together was

the Mathura rape case. The acquittal of policemen accused of raping a young girl

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protests were widely covered in the national media, and forced the Government to

amend the Evidence Act, the Criminal Procedure Code and the Indian Penal Code

and introduce the category of custodial rape.Female activists united over issues

such as female infanticide, gender bias, women health, and female literacy. The

issue of rape received increased political and social attention during the year.

The press consistently reported that violence against women was increasing,

although local women's organizations claimed that there simply had been

increased reporting. Only 10 percent of rape cases were adjudicated fully by the

courts, and police typically failed to arrest rapists, thus fostering a climate of

impunity. Mass rapes often formed part of the tactics of intimidation used by

upper caste gangs against lower castes, and gang rapes often were committed as a

punishment for alleged adultery or as a means of coercion or revenge in rural

property disputes. Numbers of reports of rape and the extent of prosecution varied

from state to state. Madhya Pradesh had the highest rates of rape reported. In

Assam 30 percent of rape cases involved girls below 18 years of age. Most of the

victims were maidservants, some as young as 6 years old. On November 24, a

medical student allegedly was gang raped in broad daylight in New Delhi.

Police arrested a man and three suspected accomplices and charged them with

rape, robbery, and criminal conspiracy (Country Reports on Human Rights

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C.Theoretical Framework

The focus of the study is on the reflection between the characteristics of

Third World Feminism and the action that Jasvinder Sanghera takes to fight

forced marriages. Theories related to the study must be used to accomplish the

analysis. The theories of feminism consist of feminism in general and the Third

World Feminism itself.

Firstly, the definition of feminism in general is needed to be used in order to

give a clear definition about feminism. It can be defined by using the theories of

Montagu and Fakih. Montagu describes the definition of feminism. Fakih tells

about the feminist struggle and the ideas of feminism. After that, by using

Humm‟s theory the kind of feminism that Jasvinder does in the novel can be

recognized. In this study, the kind of feminism is Third World Feminism.

Saunders, Sen and Gita‟s theories are also needed to be used in order to give

explanation of the important difference between Western and Third World

Feminism. In recognizing the ideas or concept of the Third World Feminism, I

used Bruno‟s ideas of the Third World Feminism which is expressed in the World

Conferences in the 1990s. The ideas are used to answered the second problem

formulation in the analysis.

I also attach the data from U. Niaz, UNICEF, INCLEN Survey 2000 and

Country Reports on Human Rights Practices about women in Pakistan and India.

The data is needed to be reviewed in order to give some descriptions about the

real situation of women and gender inequality that happen in India and Pakistan.

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marriage, rape, sexual harrasment, dowry related murders, domestic violence, and

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CHAPTER III METHODOLOGY

This chapter discusses the methodology in conducting this study. This chapter

consists of three parts. The first part discusses the object of the study. It contains a

brief description of this novel. The second part presents the critical approach that

is used in the study. The third part tells about the research procedure which

discusses the steps done to answer two questions in problem formulation.

A.Object of the Study

Daughters of Shame written by Jasvinder Sanghera. She is a novelist and

the co-founder of Karma Nirvana, a community-based project that supports South

Asian women affected by domestic violence and honour-based crimes. She was

born in Derby. Following the publication of her own stroy in Shame, Jasvinder has

brought the issue of forced marriage into the public eye and helped the Forced

Marriage Bill to go through Parliament. In 2007 she received one of the pretigious

Women of the Year awards for her work. She has also received the Mc Whirter

Foundation Award 2007, Best magazine Bravest Woman Award 2007, and the

Inspiration Award for Women 2008. Jasvinder was made an Honorary Doctor of

the University of Derby in 2008.

This study uses Jasvinder Sanghera’s novel, Daughters of Shame, as the

primary data. This novel consists of 290 pages. It was published in 2009 by

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chapters and each chapter tells about the process that Jasvinder do to save other

women from unexpected marriages. Before saving others, Sanghera even become

the victim of forced marriages. After escaping from the unexpected marriage, she

promises to help others who are trapped in unexpected marriages. She adopts

some girls who successfully escape from forced marriages and they are named as

Sanghera’s “daughters”. They are Shazia, Sanah, Kiren, Shabana, Yasmin, Maya,

Surjit, Fatima, etc.

Jasvinder Sanghera’s Daughters of Shame reveals the stories of young

women such as Shazia, kidnapped and taken to Pakistan to marry a man she had

never met. Daughters of Shame is a novel which contains of biographical true

events. The setting is in Derby, United Kingdom during this modern era. This

story is told by women who have been drugged, beaten, imprisoned, raped and

terrorised within the walls of the homes they called as family. Jasvinder Sanghera

knows what it means to flee from your family under threat of forced marriage.

She also knows how to face the terrible consequences that follow. Jasvinder is

now at the frontline of the battle to save women from the honour-based violence

and threat of forced marriage that destroyed her own youth.

B.Approach of the Study

In doing this study, I use feminist approach as the appropriate approach to

deal with feminism revealed in Sanghera’s struggle in Daughters of Shame. By

using this approach, I can analyze the life experience, the action to achieve

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According to Barry in his book entitled Beginning Theory: An Introduction

to Literary and Cultural Theory., feminist criticism accept the conventions of

literary realism, and treat literature as a series of representation of women’s lives

and experience which can be measured and evaluated against reality. Considering

this approach, I am interested in knowing the most appropriate kinds of feminism

that Jasvinder does in her novel. By using the approach, the analysis of feminism

as revealed by Jasvinder Sanghera could be proven.

C.Method of the Study

In doing this study, I used library research because the data were gathered

by analyzing the novel and reading books. According to George (2008) one of the

goals of library research is to understand human motivations for actions.

Library research is a form of structured inquiry with specific tools, rules, and techniques. It is unpredictable, sometimes frustating, but ultimately rewarding as you examine your findings, then add your own insights to make a compelling case. Library research involves identifying and locating sources that provide factual information or personal/ expert opinion on a research question; neccesary component of every other

Pakistan, in 2000s and the ideas of the Third World Feminism.

There were some steps taken in doing this study. The first step was reading

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deeper understanding, to find the important information and to know the

characters well. I took notes to gain a clear description about Jasvinder Sanghera

as the object of analysis. When I was interested in revealing feminism depicted in

Sanghera’s actions, I needed to analyze Sanghera’s actions. Secondly, I

formulated two problems. The problems could be formulated by knowing the

kinds of actions that Jasvinder took to fight forced marriages. Then, the Third

World feminism as reflected in her actions needed to be revealed. Thirdly, I found

some significant references that could guide me to comprehend the issue.

Feminism approach especially in the Third World country and the ideas of Third

World Feminism were used in analyzing the novel. I also used the data from

related books and internet in order to enrich the further information needed as the

references. The purpose of the references was to help in answering the problem

formulation.

In answering the result of the study, first I identified all of Jasvinder

Sanghera’s actions. Then, I classified them into some categories. After that, I

matched the ideas of the Third World Feminism and Jasvinder’s actions to fight

forced marriages.

After finishing all steps, the result of the study was concluded. I also gave

implication for education and suggestion for future research. Then, I included the

appendices which contained the summary of the novel, the biography of the

author, the pictures of Jasvinder’s actions in fighting forced marriage, and the

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CHAPTER IV ANALYSIS

This chapter is divided into two parts based on the two problem formulations.

The first part analyzes the kinds of actions that Jasvinder takes to fight forced

marriage. Then, the second part reveals how Jasvinder‟s actions reflect the ideas

of the Third World Feminism.

A.The Actions done by Jasvinder to Fight Forced Marriage

In order to answer the first problem, I analyze the kinds of action of

Jasvinder Sanghera against forced marriage. There are eight actions revealed from

the novel. Those actions are :

1. Building a Charity named Karma Nirvana

Jasvinder Sanghera had a big vision to help the victims of forced marriage.

Her life was called to support other women. In the past, she had a bitter

experience about being forced into marriage but she could escape. Therefore, her

family disowned her. After she escaped from home, she had a commitment to help

other victims of forced marriage. First, she met Ayesha and she said to Ayesha

that she was not the only Asian woman who had been forced into marriage. The

story of Ayesha‟s life made Jasvinder become stronger to fight forced marriage.

Ayesha was raped by her brother when she was eight. Her mother knew it but she

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As time went by, Jasvinder built a foundation namely Karma Nirvana.

After she built the charity, she could easily meet some victims of forced marriage.

“Karma Nirvana is the charity that has a purpose to help women who live in suffer

and Ayesha was one of its first clients” (Sanghera 2).

When Jasvinder listened to Ayesha, she realized that she became a witness

to her suffering. She wanted to make her feel valued as an individual. She wanted

to give a better future for the victims of forced marriage. Therefore, “Karma

Nirvana had a purpose to support forced marriage victims like Ayesha – who

suffered so often. It became the main concern of Jasvinder Sanghera when she

helped other women. It was the cornerstone of everything Jasvinder did (Sanghera

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Karma Nirvana‟s vision was inspired by the bitter experience of

Jasvinder‟s sister, Robina. Robina commited suicide by burning herself to escape

from her husband. Therefore, Jasvinder‟s life was driven by pain and guilt. She

was unable to reconcile herself to the fact that she did not prevent Robina‟s death.

I was inspired by the terrible death of my sister Robina, who burnt herself to death to escape her husband. It seemed to me then hers was a uniquely awful fate. Out of morass of emotion came my vision for a charity that would help women like Robina and my mum, women whose lives were being blighted by cultural and language difficulties

(Sanghera 8-9).

Jasvinder knew that the victim of forced marriage could call Karma

Nirvana anytime. Therefore, Karma Nirvana had a commitment to always listen to

the voice of women who needed help. Karma Nirvana‟s phone number was

always available for twenty-four-hours. The staff always listened to the screams

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office and had the endless women‟s voice on the phone whispering their fears.

They needed to be rescued.

Detective Superintendent, Tony Hutchinson from Cleveland police

appreciated Jasvinder‟s action. He knew nothing about forced marriage until he

went to a conference in London. At that event, Jasvinder was invited to attend as a

speaker. Jasvinder could give a clear explanation which changed Tony‟s idea. He

saw his phone line as a local project.

Tony‟s idea – like Karma Nirvana when it first started out – was small scale and very practical. He wanted to introduce a twenty-four-hour free phone number, manned by up to twenty volunteers, which would be dedicated to callers ringing about forced marriage or honour-based violence (Sanghera 164).

Karma Nirvana had been established for a year in Derby. Day by day,

Jasvinder proudly introduces herself as the worker of women‟s freedom. She

fought for women who had been the victims of forced marriage. She said that she

worked for Karma Nirvana, a Derby-based organisation helping south Asian

women who had been the victims of honour-based violence and forced marriage.

2. Choosing to Work rather than Taking a PhD Degree

Early that summer, Gordon Riches, who had been Jasvinder‟s tutor when

she was an undergraduate at Derby University, came to Karma Nirvana. He tried

and persuaded Jasvinder to do a PhD on honour-based violence. As soon as she

started her PhD proposal, she knew that the work was what she really wanted to

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Very few of the books I found in the library contained anything relevant; there was quite a lot of feminist material which touched on the subject, but I found it either strident or dry and nothing came close to examining why survivors survive. I began interviewing disowned women – there was a steady stream of them approaching Karma Nirvana – and looking for trends in their behaviour, common patterns and reactions. (Sanghera 150).

When Jasvinder was on in the process of taking her PhD, she did her

research and also did her actions at the same time. To make it easier, she classified

the characteristics of the survivors.

I made a list of the characteristics common to women who find the courage to flee their oppressive families of their forced marriage- the survivors. The first thing on the list was that all of them, every single one, claimed to have been the black sheep in her family, just as I was in mine. Iwas a breech baby and my mum always said to me, You were difficult

from the start.‟ (Sanghera 199).

When Jasvinder began to take her PhD, she was pushed by some

arguments which stated her actions were wrong. The police called her. She had to

face a dilemmatic fact that she had to finish her PhD or work very hard at Karma

Nirvana to help the victims. She was tired and she began crying. She thought it

was time to stop. However, she did not.

By the time I got to stand beside her, to support and encourage her, she was so battered by circumstance, so entrenched in her victimhood. The stories she had told me – long convoluted stories in which physical violence, rape, deprivation and endless cruelty and callousness all pile in on one another –exhaust me. If I‟m honest, I‟d rather not think about them. But I have to (Sanghera 204).

Jasvinder sometimes felt hesitant about her decision to do her PhD. The

trouble was there were so many things to do at Karma Nirvana which had to be

her priority. She had a commitment to dedicate her time, her effort and her ability

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struggling for it. She thought it was best to forget her PhD and go back to work.

Gordon Riches could understand her decision.

The trouble was that with so much going on at Karma Nirvana, that had to be my priority. The PhD felt like my own private pleasure and I wanted to go on with it but I was struggling, Gordon, bless him, understood. He made me work out – realistically – how much time I could give to my

studies and then he said, „Face it Jasvinder, it‟s not enough. You mustn‟t

let this hang like a dead weight round your neck. Why don‟t you put it on

hold.‟ I left his office feeling that a burden had been lifted off my

shoulders; for the first time in months I was confident that I could get my life back under control. (Sanghera 259)

3. Comforting the Victims of Forced Marriage

Jasvinder imagined a support system for young women who had recently

left their homes and been rejected by their families. Jasvinder did not only provide

a charity to protect the survivors but also comforted the survivors. First, she

comforted Shazia. Shazia was a victim of forced marriage and she is a survivor

today. When she was seventeen, her parents took her to Pakistan. Her parents said

it was for a holiday but after two weeks they told her that she was getting married

to a man she had never met before. She could escape and she met Jasvinder.

Jasvinder said to Shazia when she believed in Jasvinder, she did not work alone

but Jasvinder would help her.

Her next client was Kiren. Jasvinder received a phone call when she

accompanied her children in the Park. She thought there was a young woman

hundreds of miles away who was desperate and need reassurance. She could not

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refuges and people who supported her. Kiren had to believe in Jasvinder and her

life would be okay.

The next client was Shabana. She escaped from her home and she was

waiting to make sure that her identity would be protected. She felt sure her parents

would try to find her. She started talking about suicide. Jasvinder suddenly felt

choked by worrying Shabana. Jasvinder sent a text, asked when she could ring

Shabana and she needed to reassure Shabana that there was hope for her.

After Shabana, Jasvinder still had many clients. One of them was Maya.

She had an alcoholic husband. Her husband was quite violent towards her. He

would twist her wrist, slap her when he was drunk and pulled her backwards if she

tried to walk past him. Her husband became very controlling. He forced her to

give up an accountancy course she had started, prevented her from going out

alone, forbade socialising, monitored her calls. He called his wife „fat bitch‟. She

had been abused by her family and husband, kidnapped, forced into marriage.

Jasvinder reassured her and she promised to accompany Maya in solving her

problem.

„ I took her hands in mine, squeezing them tight as if I could pump hope into her. Look how strong and brave you are: after all you‟ve been through

you have held yourself together because you want your girls back. You

have to focus on that. Everything you‟ve done so far you‟ve done by yourself but now I‟m going to support you. You no longer have to walk alone.‟ (Sanghera 220)

4. Doing Preventive Actions against Forced Marriage in Schools

Jasvinder came to some schools in her surrounding. It became one of her

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suspected had to know their fate before it happened. Some of them had no idea of

where to turn for help. Therefore, Karma Nirvana took the preventive action and

schools were one of their early targets.

I keep in touch with all the schools in our locality; I ask to speak to the person in charge of child protection and try to make them aware of the issues surrounding teenage girls and forced marriage. It‟s not always easy. A lot of the schools don‟t want anything to do with me. They say the

things I‟m talking about are „culturally sensitive‟ and they don‟t want to

upset parents (Sanghera 9 -10).

She kept in touch with all the schools in her locality; she asked to speak to

the person in charge of child protection and tried to make them aware of the issues

of forced marriage. She explained that some of the victims of forced marriage are

being abused at home. It means they had to escape from home and they had no

place to live.

The charity I run, Karma Nirvana, helps women overcome cultural and language barriers. Most of the women who contacts us are south Asian, a lot of them are young, like you. A lot of them are being abused at home by their families, or their in laws. Some of them are afraid of being forced into marriages (Sanghera 12).

„ I‟ve recently given evidence to a Home Affairs Select Committee which is investigating domestic violence, forced marriage and honour-based violence, and several of my staff have done the same: at last the

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5. Campaigning against Forced Marriage in Public

She did not only work at Karma Nirvana office, but she also gave

presentations in front of police forces, social activists, health visitors, schools and

some institutes which cared about women. She had to handle those invitations

because there were at least forty invitations where she had to speak in public.

Anna handles my appointments now that things have got so busy. Each month I get about forty invitations to speak to police forces and social services, health visitors, schools, primary care trusts, even the Women‟s Institute. I hate to turn any of them down but realistically, with all the

travelling it involves, I can‟t manage more than twelve each month

(Sanghera 80).

Early in 2007, I received an invitation to the House of Lords from the Liberal peer, Lord Lester. He invited me to attend the second reading of Forced Marriage (Civil Protection) Act; a bill that he had introduced in order to try and prevent people from being forced into marriage. Of course I accepted; this subject is so close to my heart (Sanghera 108).

On the bill, Lord Ahmed pointed out that there was no religion –

Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, Sikhism or Islam – condoned that practice. In

fact, they condemned it. Lord Ahmed also gave a really clear answer to the

question that Jasvinder asked. It was her first time that she had heard the issues

that she was battling with everyday. The discussion gave her hope and it might be

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