Nelis Nazziatus Sadiah Qosyasih Universitas Pendidikan Indonesia
nelisnsq@upi.edu
Abstract
Sexual education is still considered taboo so that parents never talk about sexual education to their children. At the same time, the number of victims of sexual violence against children continues to increase. This study wants to see how the concept of sexual education carried out by parents works.
The theory used is the post-structuralist feminist of Foucault's power relations. The research method uses a qualitative approach with a case study design. The phenomenon of working parents who entrust their children to their grandmothers and people who are related by blood. The research was conducted in Sawangan, Depok City. Respondents in the study were two working mothers and one working father. The respondent selection technique uses purposive sampling, which is selected with the characteristics: husband and wife who both work and have early childhood children who are entrusted to grandmothers and people who are related by blood. The results showed that parents carried out the stages of sexual education for children in collaboration with grandmothers and people who were related by blood, although parents still considered that sexual education was not appropriate for early childhood because they thought that sexual education was intended for adults.
Keywords: sexual education, youth, power relations Michel Foucault
Thursday December 2nd, 2021 14.00 – 18.00 R. Trowulan
(Adolescent Social Support Single Parent Family Background)
Ayunda Amalia
Sosiologi. Fakultas Ilmu Sosial dan Ilmu Politik, Universitas Airlangga, Jl. Airlangga No. 4-6, Airlangga, Kecamatan Gubeng, Kota Surabaya, Jawa Timur 60115
Email: ayundaamalia82@gmail.com
ABSTRACT
Marriage does not always run smoothly and happily. With this household problem, this is the cause of the beginning of the family being a single parent. This single parent situation raises anxiety because women are obliged to take care of and raise their children and work as the backbone of the family to meet the family's needs and have to do all the tasks on their own. Being a single parent must be able to play the dual role of being a father and mother at the same time and not only that, but must maintain and control the emotions or depression experienced by the child and himself.
Unfavorable family conditions cause the child does not have the opportunity to learn to adapt to the changes that have occurred. Also a strong negative impact from peer groups, causing conflict and pressure experienced by children to be stronger. The conflict and pressure experienced by the child has various impacts such as stress, depression, low self-esteem, and can interfere with their mental health. With such cases, social support from several parties is needed. Social support is an action taken by someone to another individual as a form of help that can cause feelings of sympathy and empathy and individuals who receive the assistance will feel comfortable Social support can come from friends, spouses, or closest relatives. The forms of support provided can be in the form of encouraging each other, providing motivation, providing the best advice, and providing assistance in any form. The existence of social support can make a child feel calmer in a downturn.
Keywoard: Social Support, Adolescent, Single Parent
CLUSTER 5
Thursday December 2nd, 2021 14.00 – 18.00 R. Trowulan
Thursday December 2nd, 2021 14.00 – 18.00 R. Trowulan
(SOCIAL CONSTRUCTION OF DELAYED MARRIAGE AMONG CAREER WOMEN)
Talitha Nida A
Sosiologi. Fakultas Ilmu Sosial dan Ilmu Politik, Universitas Airlangga,
Jl. Airlangga No. 4-6, Airlangga, Kecamatan Gubeng, Kota Surabaya, Jawa Timur 60115 Email: talitha.nida.anisah-2018@fisip.unair.ac.id
ABSTRACT
Marriage as an institution is a form of life cooperation between men and women in the life of a society under a special regulation that has certain characteristics, namely that men act as husbands and women act as wives, both of which are legally bound. In Indonesian society in particular, the Marriage institution is heavily influenced by several factors, one of which is cultural construction and gender. These factors then gave birth to several tendencies to burden women to be encouraged to enter the institution of marriage which is also related to the phenomenon of early marriage. In contrast, along with the times, the actual marriage institution has changed where marriage is slowly no longer being something that is mandatory for some people and social rules. Regarding marriage have weakened at this time, marriage is no longer considered culturally but it becomes a personal consideration including element of mental readiness, knowledge about marriage, and reproductive and sexual health. The awareness that grows in women over time has reached the decisions that have been decided independently, in the context of marriage, women who already have extensive knowledge and abilities and have ambitions in what they do are not impossible to choose. to postpone marriage or not marry at all. Therefore, this study aims to find out more about the social construction carried out by career women regarding marriage delays. The research method that the researcher uses is a qualitative research method that is considered relevant to the phenomenon to be studied.
Keywords: Marriage, Social Construction, Career Women