KETERLIBATAN AYAH DALAM PENGASUHAN, KEMAMPUAN
COPING DENGAN RESILIENSI REMAJA YANG IBUNYA
SEBAGAI TENAGA KERJA WANITA
TESIS
Untuk Memenuhi Sebagian Persyaratan Mencapai Derajad
Magister Sains Psikologi
Diajukan oleh :
MOH. DEDY SUSANTO NIM 201010440211021
PROGRAM PASCASARJANA
KATA PENGANTAR
Puji dan syukur penulis panjatkan kehadirat Allah SWT yang telah memberikan
rahmat dan hidayah-Nya sehingga penulis dapat menyelesaikan Tesis ini dengan judul
“Hubungan Keterlibatan Ayah dalam Pengasuhan, Kemampuan Coping dengan
Resiliensi Remaja yang Ibunya Sebagai Tenaga Kerja Wanita”.
Penyusunan Tesis ini diajukan untuk memenuhi syarat akademis dalam rangka
menyelesaikan Studi S2 Program Studi Sains Psikologi di Program Pascasarjana
Psikologi Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang.
Dalam penyusunan Tesis ini, penulis banyak sekali menemui hambatan dan
kesulitan, namun berkat motivasi dan bantuan dari berbagai pihak, maka hambatan
tersebut dapat teratasi dengan baik. Pada kesempatan ini penulis mengucapkan terima
kasih yang sebesar-besarnya kepada :
1. Dr. Latipun M.Kes, Direktur Pascasarjana dan Ketua Prodi Magister Psikologi
yang telah banyak membantu kelancaran tesis ini.
2. Dr. Dwi Priyo Utomo M.Pd, selaku Dosen Pembimbing I yang dengan ikhlas
telah banyak mengorbankan waktu dan tenaga untuk memberikan pengarahan,
petunjuk, serta saran demi terselesainya penyusunan tesis ini.
3. Yudi Suharsono M.Si. P.Si, selaku Dosen Pembimbing II yang dengan sabar
memberikan pengarahan dan petunjuk kepada penulis yang terkadang perlu
beberapa kali penjelasan hingga penulis mampu memahaminya.
4. Keluarga TKW yang telah menfasilitasi tempat dalam penelitian ini.
5. Bapak, Ibu tercinta, yang selalu memberikan petuah-petuah dan dukungan moril
sehingga penulis bisa menyelesaikan kuliah S2 Ini.
6. Buat Istriku tercinta Rofiatul Aisyah S.PdI yang dengan ikhlas, setia,
mengorbankan waktu dan tenaga untuk memberikan dukungannya dalam
menyusun tesis ini.
7. Buat Anakku Muhammad Faiq dan Muhammad Fawwaz semoga dengan gelar
S2 ini memacu semangatmu dalam meraih prestasi.
8. Teman-teman seperjuangan mahasiswa pasca sarjana Psikologi Universitas
9. Para Subjek yang terlibat dalam penelitan ini, trimakasih telah membantu dalam
penelitian ini semoga bermanfaat buat kehidupan yang akan datang.
10. Kepada semua pihak yang terlibat dalam penelitian ini yang tidak dapat saya
uraikan satu persatu.
Malang, 8 Januari 2013
Penulis
DAFTAR ISI
KETERLIBATAN AYAH DALAM PENGASUHAN DAN KEMAMPUAN COPING DENGAN RESILIENSI ……… 9 - Hasil uji regresi ganda keterlibatan ayah dalam pengasuhan dan kemampuan coping secara bersama-sama dengan resiliensi ……….… 15
DAFTAR LAMPIRAN
Lampiran 1 : Surat Pernyataan Kesediaan Subyek
Lampiran 2 : Skala Try Out Keterlibatan Ayah dalam Pengasuhan
Lampiran 3 : Skala Try Out Kemampuan Coping
Lampiran 4 : Skala Try Out Resiliensi
Lampiran 5 : Skala Penelitian Keterlibatan Ayah dalam Pengasuhan
Lampiran 6 : Skala Penelitian Kemampuan Coping
Lampiran 7 : Skala Penelitian Resiliensi
Lampiran 8 : Resilience Scala
Lampiran 9 : Hasil Try Out
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