ALTRUISME DAN PERILAKU PROSOSIAL
9.3. Perilaku Altruistik dari Perspektif Penerima
9.3.4. Bereaksi untuk Membantu Ketika Diberikan
Ketika kita membantu seseorang, atau kita melihat seseorang menerima bantuan, maka wajar jika orang yang menerima bantuan tersebut akan menunjukkan rasa terima kasih. Namun, ada kalanya bantuan yang diterima tidak dihargai atau korban mengeluhkan bantuan yang diterima (Bordens &
dua”. Orang berterima kasih karena menerima bantuan. Tapi mereka juga mungkin mengalami perasaan negatif, perasaan bersalah, rendah diri, dan berhutang ketika dibantu. Ada empat kemungkinan hasil negatif dari menerima bantuan. Pertama, hubungan yang tidak adil dapat tercipta. Kedua, mereka yang dibantu mungkin mengalami reaksi psikologis. Artinya, mereka mungkin merasa kebebasannya terancam dengan menerima bantuan. Ketiga, mereka yang menerima bantuan mungkin membuat atribusi negatif tentang niat orang yang telah membantu mereka. Keempat, mereka yang menerima bantuan mungkin mengalami kehilangan harga diri (Fisher, Nadler, &
Whitcher-Algana, 1982).
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