POLA ATTACHMENTPADA KELUARGA SUKU MADURA
Oleh: ANDRIAN TRIFAJRI KUSUMA ( 01810172 )
Psychology
Dibuat: 2007-04-17 , dengan 3 file(s).
Keywords: Pola Attachment, Keluarga Suku Madura
Pengasuhan dari orang tua terhadap anak akan menimbulkan kelekatan
antara anak dengan orang tuanya. Kelekatan (attachment) adalah sebuah proses berkembangnya ikatan emosional secara resiprokal (timbal balik) antara bayi atau anak dengan ibu atau pengasuh. Kedekatan hubungan fisik dan ikatan emosi yang kuat ini memungkinkan anak untuk mempunyai perasaan aman dan terlindungi. Pada setiap daerah tentunya mempunyai ciri khas yang berbeda dalam hal
pengasuhan dan pola perilaku lekat antara anak dengan orang tuanya. Begitu pula dengan keluarga suku Madura juga mempunyai kekhasan dalam hal pengasuhan anak. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menggambarkan pola attachment antara ibu dan anak pada keluarga suku Madura di Bondowoso.
Penelitian ini adalah penelitian kualitatif deskriptif yang berlangsung selama 1 bulan. Penelitian ini menggunakan 3 subjek yang berusia antara 1 sampai 3 tahun yang diasuh oleh orang tuanya. Diambilnya anak dengan usia 1 sampai 3 tahun karena pada usia ini terjadi kecemasan terpisah (separation
anxiety) antara anak dengan ibunya sebagai obyek lekatnya. Metode pengumpulan data yang digunakan adalah observasi partisipan, sedangkan wawancara dilakukan pada ibu atau orang tua dan kerabat dekat subyek.
Abstract
Pastoral care from parents to children will generate viscosity
between children and parents. Attachment (attachment) is a process
development of emotional ties are reciprocal (mutual) between the infant or children with mothers or caretakers. Closeness physical and emotional bond This powerful enables children to have a feeling secure and protected. In each area must have characteristics that differ in terms of
parenting and bonding behavior patterns among children with parents. Similarly, Madurese families also have a uniqueness in terms of parenting
children. This study aims to describe patterns of attachment between mother and children in families in Bondowoso Madurese.
The study was a descriptive qualitative research that took place for 1 month. There were 3 subjects aged between 1
to 3 years which was raised by his parents. She took the child by the age of 1 to 3 years because at this age occurs separate anxiety (separation
anxiety) between the child with his mother as an object lekatnya. Collection methods data used were participant observation, while the interviews conducted
in the mother or parents and close relatives of subjects.
Results obtained from studies on family patterns of attachment rates Madura it can be concluded that small children are taken care of by
their parents with the frequency of meetings and involved during the parenting create a secure attachment (secure / sticky). In this study obtained
The third result that the research subjects found 2 subjects attached to his mother from the other family members. While on a subject found in the
ambivalent attachment (insecure) or not sticky. Attachment between children with mother (secure attachment) is caused by frequent frequency meeting
between children with her mother and the amount of time a child spends with her mother at home. Conversely ketidaklengketan ambivalent children attachment caused by the frequency of meetings and the role of mother is more many filled by objects attached to a replacement. A child becomes more likely
attached to the figure of the mother because the mother always accompany any child's activity. While the father as head of household is less heavily involved in
parenting. The closeness between the child with his mother led attachment Psychological between children and mothers, causing the child to feel calm
and comfortable while flying near his mother. This is referred to as the pattern of attachment the sticky, intimate and safe or also called secure attachment. Whereas
