BAB III METODOLOGI PENELITIAN
D. Saran
5. Bagi Komunitas LGBT
Komunitas LGBT merupakan salah satu wadah penting yang memberikan pengetahuan, dukungan dan perlindungan bagi individu-individu LGBT. Mengingat komunitas cukup berpengaruh secara signifikan terhadap perkembangan individu, peneliti merasa bahwa komunitas perlu membuka diri terhadap individu lesbian yang menikah dengan laki-laki. Individu lesbian dalam mixed orientation marriage memerlukan dukungan emosional dan hal ini bisa didapatkan dari komunitas LGBT apabila komunitas tersebut memberikan perhatian penuh dan tidak menghakimi, serta mendukung dan membantu saat individu mengalami konflik intrapersonal maupun interpersonal terkait pernikahannya.
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