BAB V KESIMPULAN DAN SARAN
B. Saran
3. Saran Bagi Orang Tua
Orang tua sebagai figur lekat pertama dan utama dalam proses pembentukan kelekatan, sebaiknya memberikan perhatian dan kasih sayang yang konsisten agar individu cenderung lebih memiliki kelekatan yang aman. Kelekatan aman penting untuk ditumbuhkan dalam diri individu agar individu dapat mengembangkan relasi yang sehat dan menyenangkan dengan orang lain di masa perkembangan selanjutnya.
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