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m uman r elaitonship andl earningproces sbetweent woi ndividual s n i e fi w a d n a d n a b s u h a n e e w t e b t n e m t s u j d a f o s s e c o r p e h t s i tI . s e x e s t n e r e f fi d h ti w
. ) 0 1 3 . p , 4 7 9 1 , ll ir r e M ( s e it il a n o s r e p r i e h
t Bowman (1954 )say sa marirage i sal ega l c
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s i h t ,s u h T . a r e h g n a S r e d n i v s a J o t d l o t n e m o w n a i d n I y b d e c n e ir e p x
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n o s e s u c o f y d u t s s i h t , e r o f e r e h T . s s u c s i d o t g n it s e r e t n i e r a l e v o n s i h t n i s t c e p s a
o e h T . e g a ir r a m d e c r o f y l e m a n n o i s s u c s i d f o t c e p s a e n o g n i z y l a n
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y d u t s s i h t ,r e v o e r o M . e fi l s ’ n a m u h n i g n i h t t n a tr o p m i n a s i e g a ir r a m t a h t d n a t s r e d n u
d e c r o f t u o b a e r o m d n a t s r e d n u o t e c n e r e f e r a e v a h o t g n i d n a t s r e d n u r e d a e r e h t e v i g l li w
f o e c r u o s a s a l e v o n e h t e s u o s l a n a c y e h T . g n i n r a e l d n a g n i h c a e t r o f l e v o n a e s u o h w
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d n a , n e m o W , e g a ir r a M d e c r o F , e g a ir r a M e r a y e h T . d e n if e d y lr a e l c e b t s u m t a h t s m r e t
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w Izzat o rfamliy hono rwhich serve sa sa foundaiton on how Indian p e e k o t l o o t a s a e g a ir r a m d e c r o f r e d i s n o c y e h t e s u a c e b e g a ir r a m d e c r o f e z il a g e l s t n e r a p
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I o rfamliy honor .Fu trhe,r t he meeitng consist so fpre acitviites ,whlis tacitviites , s
a d e g n a r r a e r a y e h T . s e it i v it c a t s o p d n
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2 Thet eache rask spre-readingquesitonsr elatedt ot het opicoft hes tudy. .
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1 Thes tudentsr eadat ex ttakenf romDaughter so fShame(chapte r3 ,p .21- )3 0 .
2 Thet eache rdividest hes tudentsi ntogroup soff ou ro r ifve. .
3 Thet eache raskst hes tudentst odiscus sat ex tpassagei nagroup. .
4 Thet eache rgivess omecomprehensivequesitons .
5 Thes tudent sdiscusst hecomprehensivequesitonsi nagro up .
6 Eachgrouphast opresentt her esul toft hediscussiont ot heclas .s .
7 Thet eache raskst hes tudentst ocomparet heexistenceofi zzati nEastern .
e r u tl u c n r e t s e W d n a e r u tl u c .
8 Thet eache randt hes tudent sdiscusst ot hewholeclas .s .
9 Thet eache randt hestudent sconcludet hediscussiont ogethe.r t
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1 Thes tudent sconcludewhatt heyhavel earntt oday .
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e r a y e h t e s u a c e b s e s u o h r i e h t m o r f e e lf m e h t f o t s o M . e g a ir r a m d e c r o f t s n i a g a
, a n a v ri N a m r a K h g u o r h t r e d n i v s a J t e e m y lt n e u q e s b u s y e h T . d n a b s u h r i e h t y b d e r u tr o t
o p p u s d n a p l e h h c i h w n o it a z i n a g r o e h
t tr t hem i ns rtuggilngagains tforcedmar irage .
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o h w n e m o w f o s t o l e r a e r e h T . d e p a r d n a , d e n o s ir p m i , n e t a e b , d e g g u r d n e e b e v a h o h w
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F Daughter so fShameshowt hatt herei sno
n i e c n e l o i v d e s a b r u o n o h t e g n e m o w s ’ n a i d n I . e fi l f o s t c e p s a y n a m n i t h g ir s ’ n a m o w
f , r e h tr u F . e g a ir r a
m orced mar irage put sIndian’ swomen in suffe irng a sphysica l
n i d e v l o v n i s e l p m a x e n o m m o c e h t e r a g n i p a r d n a g n it a e B . e s u b a l a b r e v d n a e s u b a
s i e s u b a l a b r e v , e li h w n a e M . e m a h S f o s r e t h g u a D n i d e b ir c s e d s a e s u b a l a c i s y h p
e g a ir r a m n i e s a c n o m m o c a e b o t t h g u o h
t . Moslty , verba l abuse i s done by
o t m e h t d e g a r u o c n e n e m o w s ’ n a i d n I y b d e v i e c e r s e s u b a e h T . e fi w e h t g n it a il i m u h
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. y t e i c o s d n a , d n a b s u h , y li m a f
, y b r e D n i a n a v ri N a m r a K t c a t n o c r a e y a e l p o e p d n a s u o h t e v if y lt n e r r u C
m o r F . d n a l g n
E ti theHonou rNetworkHelpilnei sformedandi nt hef ristf ou rmonth s
s e v i e c e r t i n o it a r e p o s ti f
o one thousand and sixty-nine call sfor suppo tr .Eighty
e r a t n e c r e
p from vicitm so fforced mar irage and in seventy-one percen to fthese
s r o t a rt e p r e p e h t ,s e s a
c are i mmediate famliy .Javinder irsk she rown l fie doing such
d n a s t a e r h t h t a e d l a r e v e s d a h s a h e h S . k r o
w humanf ace ssmeared over t he window s
n i a m e r t u b , g n i d li u b e c if f o r e h f
o acitve,i fvigliant .Daughter so fShameexplainst he
h s i d r u K r o n a h t a P f o n e tf o , n e m o w m il s u M f o s ll e t d n a a n a v ri N a m r a K f o k r o w
y li m a f , e c n e l o i v g n i k c o h s f o s m it c i v e h t e r a o h w , n i g ir
o -sancitoned rape , and
r e d r u m n e v e s e m it e m o
s - because they do no tcomply wtih the wishe so fthei r
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h vendistan tmaler elaitves .
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I womenhavenochoice .Mos tB iritshAsianf amiile sares aneenought o
y a s o t d e w o ll a e r a o h w , s r e t h g u a d e l b a e g a ir r a m r i e h t o t s e t a d i d n a c f o n o it c e l e s a r e f f o
, t u B . y li p p a h y r r a m o t n o o g n e tf o o h w d n a , ” o n
“ i tshow swtih horrfiying clartiy ,
d n a , f f o r e t h g u a d a y r r a m o t y l p m i s s i m i a e h t m o h w r o f s e il i m a f y n a m o s l a e r a e r e h t
e v a l s a , ) n i g n i n i o j y li m a f e l o h w e h t h ti w ( e r u tr o t , e p a r ,s g n it a e b s e v l o v n i t a h t
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B o fJasvinderSanghera o
c e h t s i a r e h g n a S r e d n i v s a
J -founde rand an acitvis to fKarma Nrivana ,a
e g u f e r l a r e v e s e r e h w n e m o w n a i s A h t u o S t r o p p u s t a h t t c e j o r p d e s a b y ti n u m m o c
e f a s s a e v r e s m o d g n i K d e ti n U e h t s s o r c a s e rt n e
c - housing affected by domesitc
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v ce called forced mar irage .She wa sborn in Derby and followed the B iritsh
g n i s i a r n o r e d a e l a s i r e d n i v s a J , a n a v ri N a m r a K f o r o t c e ri D e h t s A . m e t s y s n o it a c u d e
h ti w d e c a f n e h W . e g a ir r a m d e c r o f e c n e ir e p x e o h w s r o v i v r u s d n a s m it c i v f o e c i o v e h t
o t c e p s o r p e h
t faf orcedmar iragehersel ,fs her anawayf romhome .Shet ell shers tory
l e v o n r e h n
i Shame ,pubilshed by Hodde rand Stoughton .Shame i sone where
n a s i t I . r e g a n e e t a s a w e h s n e h w s e c n e ir e p x e n w o r e h m o r f n w a r d e r a s e t o d c e n a
m o r f e p a c s e n w o r e h f o t n u o c c
a her f amliy andan arrangedmar irage a tage 15 t o a
d e d n e t n i r e h d n a y li m a f r e h m o r f g n i d i h n i s a w r e d n i v s a J . t e m r e v e n d a h e h s n a m
e d i c i u s d e tt i m m o c r e t s i s r e h n e h w g n i d n e y l n o r o r r e t r e h , s r a e y e e r h t r o f m o o r g e d ir b
o t l u s e r a s a t h g il a f l e s r e h g n it t e s y
b frepeated violence from t he man esh had been
e h S . d n a b s u h r e h e b d l u o w o h w n a m a f o o t o h p a n w o h s s a w e h S . y r r a m o t d e c r o f
m o r f y a w a n a r r e d n i v s a J . e g a ir r a m d e c r o f n i e c n e l o i v f o e l a t g n i w o r r a h a s t c i p e d
i s r e d l e r e h , s u h T . e g a ir r a m d e c r o f a d i o v a o t e m o
h ste rter ir ifed by he rabusive
y t n e w t e m o s e c a l p k o o t s t n e v e e s e h t h g u o h T . 7 8 9 1 n i f l e s r e h d e ll i k d n a d n a b s u h
n a c o s , y li m a f h tr i b r e h o t n i k c a b d e t p e c c a n e e b t o n l li t s s a h r e d n i v s a J , o g a s r a e y
h w n e m o w n a i s A r e h t o y b d e c a f r a e f d n a n o it a l o s i e h t d n a t s r e d n
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f o y ti s r e v i n U e h t f o r o t c o D y r a r o n o H n a d e d r a w a s a w r e d n i v s a J , r e h tr u F . d n a b s u h
b r e
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n i s t n e m e v e i h c a e h t o t n o it i n g o c e r g n i v i G . e c n e l o i v d e s a b r u o n o h d n a e g a ir r a m
n e e b s a h r e d n i v s a J . y ti n u m m o c r e d i w e h t n i h ti w e g n a h c t c e f f e o t g n i n g i a p m a c
c il b u P e h t r o f d e t a n i m o
n ServiceAward2009byFris tWomenAward .sI nhers econd
f o s d n a s u o h t f o s e ir o t s l a n o it a ri p s n i e h t s ll e t a r e h g n a S , e m a h S f o s r e t h g u a D , k o o b
r a li m i s n i m e h t p l e h o t a n a v ri N a m r a K n i t e m y lt n e u q e s b u s s a h a r e h g n a S t a h t n e m o w
g a ir r a m d e c r o f e r a h c i h w , n o it a u ti
s eandhonou rbasedviolence.
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y ti l a n o i s n e m i d it l u m l a r u tl u c s s o r c , d a o r b a h ti w e r u tl u c d n a t s r e d n u , e t a i c e r p p a
f o s m o t s u c g n i s o p a t x u j n i s e i d u t s y r a n il p i c s i d r e t n i g n i z il it u , k o o lt u o f o
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y e h t t a h t s e u l a v e h t ll e t d n a , p u o r g r i e h t n i c i p o t e h t s s u c s i d , li a t e d r o f e g a s s a p
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1 Thet eache rgreetst hes tudent s .
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3 Thet eache raskst hes tudentst odiscus sat ex tpassagei nagroup.
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4 Thet eache rgivess omecomprehensivequesitons
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5 Thes tudent sdiscusst hecomprehensivequesitonsi nagroup
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6 Eachgrouphast opresentt her esul toft hediscussiont ot heclas .s
.
7 Thet eache raskst hes tudentst ocomparet heexistenceofi zzati nEastern
. e r u tl u c n r e t s e W d n a e r u tl u c
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s n o it s e u Q e v i s n e h e r p m o C .
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2 Whati st hei mpo tranceo fizzatforI ndianf amiiles?
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5 Wha thappenstoHeshuwhens hedecidest ogoonadatewtihaCh irsitan
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